Most men do not realise that women send subtle body language clues to men they are interested and attracted too. Women also expect you to act on their flirting clues and signals. If a man does not act on a signal from the women, she could will see him as gutless and a wimp. Women, like a man that sees them as a sexual creature and is confident in his self and his sexuality.
The big advantage of becoming aware of a women's body language is that it can help you avoid rejection. You will avoid being rejected if you only ask a women out who has indicated from her body language that she is interested in you. Simple hey! Getting rejected by an attractive women is not a very nice feeling and it can damage your self confidence.
Having good self confidence and a good self image is very important when talking to a women as she can read this easily in your body language. Most women are expert in reading men's body language. In a few seconds a women can tell if a man is worth getting to know. The more flirting signals the women sends, the more reliable the message of attraction. One body language clue is generally not a reliable signal.
One needs to look for group of body language signals. Generally they will come in groups of five. So what are some flirting signals that most women tend to use. The first is hair touching or playing with her hair. The hair toss is a great one to watch for. To see an example of this , look at some TV commercials to see the hair toss in action.
Another way of telling you if she is interested is to look at how she sits. If she stands or sits with her crotch straight at you, this is a good sign. Touching you is a great sign and moving closer and leaning into you when you are talking is a big plus. Strong eye contact with bedroom eyes is a very good indication of attraction. Another is showing her breasts in some way.
E.g. putting her arm under them to make the cleavage or leaning forward so you can see them. Smiling at you and licking her lips and tilting her head as she talks are other body language signals. Check out some TV ads and you will see the woman actors using the above signs of flirting body language signals! Also movies are a great way of learning body language as the actors are skilled at this aspect in their craft.
It is good to look at the male actors too and see how they express their masculinity. Women leave many of flirting signals when they are interested in a man. And the more signals they leave for you, the better is the chance that they *really* like you. Have fun checking out women's flirting sigmals.
You will be at a big advantage to other men if you start to tune in to the subtle clues.
Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. Visit his body language tips site and learn Body Language site.
